John Owen and Richard Baxter were both "giants of seventeenth-century English Christianity." These men "were both wise, insightful, passionate, warmly committed to Jesus Christ, and deeply concerned for his church and the gospel" during and after the English Civil War. Yet the two could not agree, and lobbed inflammatory barbs at each other in print for decades. When Christians Disagree looks at what happened, why, and what lessons we can take from it. A summary follows.
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Cooper looks at the good accomplishments of each man in chapter one to make it clear that these were not troublemakers. They both truly cared for God and others, and served well. But the point of the book is not just that they disagreed but how they went about it, and so the rest of the book looks at (first) their respective backgrounds (experiences, personalities, theology), and (then) their disagreement and fallout.
While both men sided with parliament during the civil war, they took opposite views of the war itself (one calling it a triumph and the other a disaster). This was, in part, due to their personal experiences during the conflict itself, with one in the trenches (as a chaplain in the army) and the other relatively isolated from the bloodshet itself. Our experiences shape us in ways we don't always recognize and affect how we look at the world.
Baxter and Owen also had very different personalities. One was a political player; the other spoke bluntly without regard for how it was received. One was "easily exasperated"; the other was "simply exasperating." Sometimes conflicts are due more to conflicting personalities than we realize.
These men also wrangled over theology. "While they share an enormous amount of common ground, they stood back-to-back, looking in opposite directions and subject to opposite fears." One worried about lawlessness that came from misunderstanding God's grace; the other worried about encouraging works-based righteousness is also a gospel distortion. "Their underlying fear made it extremely difficult for each man to see in the other the many points they held in common. Rather, each one saw the other as aiding and abetting the enemy."
In the wake of war, church unity was a focus for both men, but they had rival visions for it—one focused on confession (agreeing on principles) and the other on action (agreeing on practice). Ironically, "working together on unity served to drive them further apart." They sniped at each other in print and in person, culminating in derailing an important forum intended to heal the country. Years later, their previous poisonous exchanges would further shade future encounters, as memory can be powerful and encourage distrust even when both genuinely hoped for reconciliation.
So what can we learn? Cooper suggests five things:
1) have a mediator (rather than snipe at each other publicly and at distance)
2) focus on what holds you together (rather than drives you apart)
3) pay more attention to Scripture's calls for unity (John 17:11, Philippians 2:2, 1 Thessalonians 5:13, Romans 12:18, etc.)
4) be humble
5) there is great advantage to distance and hindsight, so look at past conflicts for lessons how to live today
And based on this situation, Cooper offers the following questions as a response when discord arises:
- Do I really need to respond to the initial provocation?
- How much of the conflict can be traced back to personality rather than theology?
- Am I overlooking all the things I have in common with the other person and seeingly only the small number of differences?
- How are my own faults contributing to a poor relationship?
- Am I showing the humility, generosity, gentleness, and kindness to which I am called?
- How much pride is mixed up in my motivations and actions?
- How much damage will be inflicted on those around me and the cause of Christ by my continued conflict with the other person?
- Is there anyone in my Christian community who can help repair our relationship or manage our differences?
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This work disappointed me. While the author brought up good points, the book seemed repetitive, speculative (there are a lot of gaps in the record that Cooper fills with assumptions), and not overly helpful for resolving conflict in our own lives. We didn't learn a lot about the men, the situation, or the ramifications to the church (which are hinted at but not spelled out). This book could have been an essay, I thought to myself as I read. The list of questions at the end is good and worthy of usage, and I did learn a few things, but I had hoped for more.
Rating: C